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Resources for bereaved parents and families

We are very sorry for your loss and very sorry you've needed to access these pages. Below is a list of resources and contact details for organisations who maybe able to help you during this difficult time. If you become aware of other organisations, do let us know so we can add these to our list below. 

National contacts:

Action on Pre-Eclampsia (APEC)

Helps and supports women and their families who are affected by or worried about pre-eclampsia and aims to raise public and professional awareness of pre-eclampsia.

www.action-on-pre-eclampsia.org.uk

Antenatal Results and Choices (ARC)

Offers non-directive individualised information and support for parents making decisions around antenatal testing, including when a baby has a significant anomaly.

www.arc-uk.org

Baby Mailing Preference Service (MPS) online

Free site where parents can register online to stop or help reduce baby-related mailings.

www.mpsonline.org.uk/bmpsr

Bereavement Advice Centre

Offers information and advice for people with practical concerns after the death of someone close to them.

www.bereavementadvice.org

Bliss

Offers support for families of premature or sick babies, including bereaved families.

www.bliss.org.uk

British Pregnancy Advisory Service (BPAS)

Offers advice and treatment for termination of pregnancy in the UK.

www.bpas.org

Child Benefit Office

Parents can contact the Child Benefit Office at HM Revenues and Customs for information about

eligibility, claiming and stopping Child Benefit.

www.gov.uk/government/organisations/hm-revenue-customs/contact/child-be…

Child Bereavement UK (CBUK)

Provides support for families when a baby or child has died or is dying and offers support for children faced with bereavement. Offers training for professionals.

www.childbereavementuk.org

The Compassionate Friends

An organisation of bereaved parents, siblings and grandparents that offer support to others after the death

of a child or children.

www.tcf.org.uk

Contact a Family

Provides support, information and advice for families with disabled children.

www.cafamily.org.uk

Cruse Bereavement Care

Offers support to bereaved people and training for professionals.

www.cruse.org.uk

Ectopic Pregnancy Trust

Provides support and information for people who have had or been affected by an ectopic pregnancy, including health professionals.

www.ectopic.org.uk

Federation of British Cremation Authorities (FBCA)

Professional organisation of burial and cremation authorities in the UK.

www.fbca.org.uk

Fertility Network UK

Provides support for people dealing with infertility and/or who are facing involuntary childlessness.

www.fertilitynetworkuk.org

Funeral Payments – NI Direct

Financial help that is available for individuals on low-incomes in Northern Ireland who need help to

pay for a funeral that they are arranging.

www.nidirect.gov.uk/funeral-payments

Funeral Payments – UK Government

Financial help that is available for individuals on low-incomes in England, Wales and Scotland who need

help to pay for a funeral that they are arranging.

www.gov.uk/funeral-payments

Gifts of Remembrance

Provides photography training for hospital staff and volunteers who support parents after a stillbirth or

neonatal death.

www.giftsofremembrance.co.uk

Institute of Cemetery and Crematorium Management (ICCM)

Professional organisation of burial and cremation authorities in the UK that promotes the improvement

of cemeteries, crematoria and public services.

www.iccm-uk.com

Jobcentre Plus – Bereavement Services Helpline

Provides information about benefits claims.

Telephone: 0345 608 8601

www.gov.uk/contact-jobcentre-plus

Lullaby Trust

Offers support and advice for parents whose baby dies suddenly and advice on safer sleep.

www.lullabytrust.org.uk

Marie Stopes International

Independent provider of sexual and reproductive health services in the UK.

www.mariestopes.org.uk

Miscarriage Association

Offers support and information for individuals affected by pregnancy loss and health care professionals.

www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk

Money Advice Service

Provides free and impartial money advice, including information for bereaved parents about benefits and

entitlements after the death of their baby.

www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk

Multiple Births Foundation (MBF)

Provides support and information for multiple birth families (including bereavement support) and information for professionals.

www.multiplebirths.org.uk

National Association of Funeral Directors

Provide support and guidance for funeral firms and bereaved families using their services.

www.nafd.org.uk

National Association of Memorial Masons (NAMM)

Sets standards for memorial stones and provides information for individuals who are choosing a memorial.

www.namm.org.uk

The Natural Death Centre

Offers support, advice and guidance for families and other individuals who are arranging a funeral, including

information about environmentally-friendly funerals and woodland burial sites.

www.naturaldeath.org.uk

Now I lay me down to sleep

An American website that puts bereaved parents in touch with professional photographers who will take

photographs of their babies at no cost. Site shows examples of photographs of babies of all gestations.

Photographers in the UK can also be found through the Find a Photographer page.

www.nowilaymedowntosleep.org

Our Missing Peace

Resources for bereaved families and a helpful repository of information under ‘useful links’ across the four

Home Nations.

www.ourmissingpeace.org

Rainbow Trust Children’s Charity

Offers support to families in England with life-limiting and life-threatening conditions.

www.rainbowtrust.org.uk

Registry Offices for England and Wales, Scotland, and Northern Ireland

England and Wales: General Register Office

www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content

Scotland: National Records for Scotland

www.nrscotland.gov.uk/registration

Northern Ireland: General Register Office Northern Ireland (GRONI)

www.nidirect.gov.uk/gro

Relate

Offers relationship support to help people strengthen their relationships.

www.relate.org.uk

Remember My Baby Remembrance Photography

UK-based charity who have professional photographers who voluntarily provide their photography services to parents whose baby dies before, during or shortly after birth.

www.remembermybaby.org.uk

Sands, the stillbirth and neonatal death charity

Provides support and information for anyone affected by the death of a baby, before or after birth. National helpline, local parent-led support, literature and online support. Works to improve care when a baby dies and promotes research to reduce the loss of babies’ lives.

www.sands.org.uk

Samaritans

Offers confidential support that is available 24 hours a day to people who need to talk.

Telephone: 116 123 (UK) or 116 123 (ROI) for free.

www.samaritans.org

Tamba Bereavement Support Group

Offers support for families who have lost one or more children from a multiple birth during pregnancy, birth or at any time afterwards.

www.tamba.org.uk/bereavement

(Part of the Twins and Multiple Births Association (Tamba)

www.tamba.org.uk)

Together for Short Lives

Offers support for families with children who have life-threatening or life-limiting conditions and professionals

and services (including children’s hospices).

www.togetherforshortlives.org.uk

United Kingdom Association for Milk Banking (UKAMB)

Supports human milk banking and aims to provide safe and screened donor breastmilk for premature and

sick babies.

www.ukamb.org

Winston's Wish

Offer support to bereaved children, their families and professionals.

www.winstonswish.org.uk

Working Families

Helps working parents, carers and their employers balance home and work responsibilities. They also

provide information about parents’ rights at work and to benefits after they experience miscarriage, stillbirth and neonatal death.

www.workingfamilies.org.uk/articles/miscarriagestillbirth-